I cannot imagine that these parakeets are too happy! Hopefully, the crowding is only temporary at this bird market in South Jakarta. Perhaps birds have a different perception of personal space. But even among us, our comfort level in a crowded space can differ according to culture. Some people are fine getting right up to your face to speak with you. Most Americans would back up. Two spaces free on a three-seat sofa? It’s obvious to the American that the space in the middle should be empty. Not so with other cultures.
Today’s verse has a direct effect on the rights to personal space that we feel are ours. Whether the issue is space, right-of-way on the road, or living with a “morning person” when one is a “night owl” we are challenged to respond in a way that pleases the Lord. Our world encourages us to insist on our rights. Yet today’s verse talks about responding with humility and even seeing the other as more important than oneself!
It goes against my nature to give precedence to another. I do not want to be viewed as a push-over. I certainly do not want people walking all over me and ignoring my rights. But I cannot be peaceable and considerate to all men (Titus 3:2) if I insist on my own way with others. For me to obey this verse takes faith. It means trusting the Lord to take care of my wants and needs. Christ is more than able to take care of “rights” or to help me let them go if that is what He wants.
Lord, I need Your help to have this attitude.
Photo credit: Krotz at https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Wildlife_trade_-_crowded_birds.jpg