The male species of this duck originating in China and Japan is considered the world’s most beautiful. Pairs of these birds are sometimes given at the occasion of a marriage as they are symbols of fidelity. The thought that these ducks promote love and marriage is a centuries-old idea. Perhaps it came about as they swim in pairs so close together. And they do return to the same mate in the next mating season rather than establishing a new bond.
Today’s verse is the answer Jesus gave to the Pharisees seeking to trap Him with questions on marriage. He quotes what God established in the beginning in Genesis 2:24. The step of marriage is to be a binding commitment. The original and best plan for marriage is that it be exclusive and permanent. One new flesh is created from two. Tearing apart the two can cause excruciating pain. The Lord in His love and compassion gives us the best plan to avoid that kind of pain.
God’s plan for marriage can seem restrictive to some. But to give love the best chance to flower and last is within that safe place of total commitment. It shows that we are serious to stay together. The world says that one is somehow missing out. But I know differently. It is through many years of ups and downs, trials and joys that my love for my husband grows. Short term love cannot even be compared to the depths of love that commitment can foster. God’s plan, though sometimes difficult, is the best plan there is!
Thank you Lord, for creating the best opportunity to grow my love.