I have seen lots of gingerbread house creations over the years, including those of my grandsons. But I have never seen such attention to detail as these houses on display at the Culinary Institute of America in St. Helena, Napa Valley. It took lots of self control on the part of my husband to not indulge in just one roof tile. That is because not only are they elaborately constructed, but they were done by budding chefs, making them delicious too!
Today’s verse describes the wise woman as someone who knows how to build her own house. By contrast, the foolish woman will tear hers down. It is in the power of the woman to do either. So much of a family’s emotional health and well-being are dependent on the wife and mother. She has the potential to build up the members of her household with words of love, acceptance and encouragement. What comes out of her mouth is to build others up according to their needs (Eph. 4:22). The home where this is true is a safe and peaceful place.
It is a sobering thought to realize the potential of my words. I do not always see the damage I am doing to the walls and floors with my complaints and negativity. There may be tiles missing from my roof as a result of my criticism and nagging. It is a daily challenge to bite my tongue. But I have seen too the benefits when the Lord answers my prayers to “set a guard over my mouth.” (Psalm 141:3). It is only with His help that I can be that wise woman with a house still standing!
Lord, help me control my mouth today.