My husband and I were having lunch with my French chorale group after a concert. At that round table, everyone was ordering the ice cream dessert, vanilla with chocolate sauce. My husband, concerned about cost, told me we could get a cone later that night. I was not happy as chocolate ice cream is my weakness. As my husband left for the bathroom, others encouraged me to go ahead and order! Thankfully, I resisted as they were out of the chocolate sauce and gave everyone strawberry instead. Later that night I doubly enjoyed my chocolate ice cream cone!
Today’s verse tells us that we are to submit to others as a sign of reverence for Christ. This submission is done reciprocally in a marriage but then wives are specifically addressed. When a wife submits to her husband she is showing her love by respecting him (verse 33). This submission is not unlike our submission to the Lord, also to show love and respect. And just as the submission of Christ to the Father is a strength, so our submission is a show of strength and commitment to God’s plan.
The hardest part of submitting to my husband’s wishes that day was the public nature of it. I was concerned that I would look like a weak push-over in front of the others. But respecting my husband was more important than their opinion. The Lord was so good to sweeten the experience that evening with what I really wanted. And the added benefit was the sweetness in our relationship!
Lord, give me the strength to submit, showing my love for my husband and for You.