There is a Chinese restaurant at the entrance to the long alleyway leading to our house. When the wind is just right, we smell all their wonderful cooking! Those aromas probably influence me to cook Chinese food more than I realize! My Chinese cooking will never rival theirs, or especially that of my Chinese Mother-in-law. But my husband always appreciates my efforts.
One thing I never cook is sweet and sour as my husband does not care for it much. In fact, mixing sweet and sour is something that is not done too often in French cooking. Our verse for today describes the mouth of the wise as speaking pleasant sweet words. Those words are sweetness to the soul and have a healing effect, not only for the listeners but perhaps even for those whose who speak them.
More often than not, my words end up being sweet and sour. James 3:10-11 tells me this ought not to be! How is it that the same mouth can speak blessing and cursing? A fountain does not normally give fresh and bitter water at the same time. And yet, that is exactly my problem.
I do not seem to have too much of a problem with my mouth on a Sunday morning at church. However, behind the wheel can be another story! My words become sour. This also seems to happen when I am overly tired or when frustrations mount! Sweet becomes polluted with sour. Instead of sweetness and healing, this mix produces bitterness and hurt.
Lord, keep me from becoming sour. Make my words persuasive, pleasant and sweet.