Scripture for Today: Matthew 18: 21-22 “Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, ‘Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?’ Jesus answered, ‘I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.'”
It was pure guess work. I tried being methodical as a prize would be awarded for this baby shower-party-game. Otherwise, I wouldn’t have bothered trying to count the candies in this jar. But in fact, my counting left something to be desired as my total was way off. Someone else walked away with the coveted prize. I would have been happy to walk away with the candies!
Today’s verse is about something we are not to count; how many times to forgive someone. Peter perhaps felt he was being generous to suggest forgiving seven times as the current thinking among the Pharisees was three times. That makes Jesus’ answer all the more surprising. The idea was not to forgive seventy-seven times or even seventy times seven. The idea is that forgiveness is not to be counted at all. Forgiveness is to be immeasurable.
My memory is so faulty on some subjects but somehow, the memories of when and how I have been wronged are very clear. Forgiving someone more than once for the same offense is also too easy to remember. I have had to say to my husband, “I am sorry, forgive me,” countless times over more than 40 years of marriage. And I have had to forgive him too, many times without number. It is so difficult to “forgive from the heart” (verse 35) over and over again. And yet, I cannot think of a better way to show true love. This is exactly what the Lord has done in forgiving me countless times.
Thank you Lord, that You do not count.