No one would know. The damage to my table top and buffet is extensive as it dates back to the 1920’s. I keep meaning to get it refinished but I know that each new move will add new nicks and scratches. My solution is to cover over all the imperfections with table runners or table scarves. I have quite a collection from all over the world and for every season. The only way to see the problems would be to uncover the furniture to the light of day.
Today’s verse encourages the believer to love his brothers and sisters in Christ with a deep love. Love covers over a multitude of sins. And a deep love will require extending forgiveness. This is a love that covers all wrongs suffered (Prov. 10:12). Fostering this kind of love covers over an offense done to us, but repeating a matter can separate even close friends (Prov. 17:9). This is no light-hearted superficial love. For this, one has to dig down deep! The hurt is still there and we bear the marks. But we cover it with love and forgiveness. And in loving deeply, a relationship can be restored.
The only possible way to love in spite of hurts done to me is to look at what Christ did. My sin hurt Him to the point of death. He has the scars on His hands and side to prove it! There is no deeper love than His for me. If He could cover me with grace and forgiveness, than I need to do the same. Surely, what has been done to me cannot compare to my sin and rebellion against Him.
Lord, help me to love others deeply and with forgiveness.