These cockroaches have a name; the Madagascar Hissing Cockroach. But for those that keep them as pets, they probably have an additional name such as Bob or Linda. However, for just two dollars you can name a cockroach at the Hemsley Conservation Centre near London for Valentine’s Day. No, the cockroach is not the love of your life but the EX love of your life! The first names will appear on a roach board next to the cockroach enclosure. Participants who exact this revenge will receive a certificate and a half-price entry!
Today’s verse can be convicting. It is repeated throughout Scripture that we are not to take revenge (Romans 12:19). That job is done much better by the Lord who sees hearts and is righteous. However, holding a grudge is something that we feel entitled to do, reminding ourselves that it is not OK what was done to us. Unfortunately, holding a grudge just keeps the memory alive and keeps the offender at arm’s length.
So often, the guilty one is unaware of that unforgiving spirit I harbor. It certainly does nothing to him. The pain I continue to feel becomes self-inflicted and can become more important than the original offense. But to forgive and forget seems as if I am letting that person get away with something. The closer the offender is to me the deeper the wound. It is impossible to forgive and let go without the Lord. Because He forgives me and does not hold a grudge, He empowers me to do the same. It can only happen as I continually give it to Him.
Lord, help me to relinquish my hurt to You.