What changes a young person who is normally sweet and compliant into a defiant rebellious person? The answer could be the mental disorder called, Oppositional Defiance Disorder, or ODD. It could be difficult diagnosing this as almost any child has his moments. But this is something more. It is a frequent and persistent pattern of anger, irritability, arguing, defiance and even vindictiveness. There is no clear cause but factors can include genetics or environment. To avoid a lifetime of grief it’s best to have an accurate diagnosis and seek help from a professional.
Being easily provoked and dealing with anger issues is already a common problem for most. Today’s verse tells us that this kind of anger is especially a problem for the fool. A fool is described as one who does not believe in God (Psalm 53:1). Without a relationship with our Creator we do not have the recourse of turning to Him for the self-control He gives (Gal. 5:22-23). Belonging to the Lord does not mean we are never angry, but it does mean that we do not have to be characterized by it. He is in the business of transforming us little by little to be like His Son (II Cor. 3:18).
My anger can be so destructive to myself and others. Even when I feel it is justified, it does more harm than good. I need His help to replace my anger at that slight I feel or at being overlooked or at that injustice. I need His help to replace anger with His kindness, compassion and forgiveness. His anger at my sin has been satisfied by Christ’s sacrifice. If He can forgive me than I can show grace too.
Thank you Lord, that You calm my anger.